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Children Learn What They Live

孩子在生活中学习

by Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.

美國的著名社會學家及精神治療師,1924年1月12日-2005年11月6日

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.

批评中长大的孩子,责难他人。

If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.

敌意中长大的孩子,喜欢争斗。

If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.

恐惧中长大的孩子,常常担忧。

If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.

怜悯中成长的孩子,自怨自艾。

If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.

嘲笑中长大的孩子,容易退缩。

If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.

猜忌中长大的孩子,滋生怨恨。

If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.

羞耻中长大的孩子,内疚自责。

If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.

鼓励中长大的孩子,深具自信。

If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.

宽容中长大的孩子,能够忍耐。

If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.

称赞中长大的孩子,懂得感恩。

If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.

承诺中长大的孩子,学会珍爱。

If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.

认可中长大的孩子,收获自信。

If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.

赏识中长大的孩子,树立目标。

If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.

分享中长大的孩子,慷慨大方。

If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.

诚信中长大的孩子,理解真理。

If children live with fairness, they learn justice.

公正中长大的孩子,极富正义。

If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.

尊重中长大的孩子,懂得尊敬。

If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.

安定中长大的孩子,信任自己和他人。

If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

友善中长大的孩子,眼里是美好世界。

Copyright © 1972 by Dorothy Law Nolte


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